Relationship Advice Column: Ask April Maccario

Relationship Advice Column

In this relationship advice column, you'll be able to go through the various posts and articles that I've specifically created to answer readers' questions.

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Relationship Advice

August 29, 2021
11 Must-Have Cuffing Season Rules (What You Need to Know)

Cuffing or being “tied down” (cuffed) in a relationship is generally reserved for the winter months when “baby, it’s cold outside.” There are various explanations of what “cuffing season” really is, and we’ll explore this more.  However, if you are planning on participating in “cuffing,” meaning you expect to be in a relationship during cuffing […]

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August 29, 2021
How To Reject A Guy (13 Ways To Reject His Advances)

Have you recently met a guy who wants to take things further? Or do you have a friend who wants more?  If yes, the issue now is, how to reject someone nicely without crushing their spirit. Unfortunately, rejection is never an easy task, especially with someone you know, like a friend.  It hurts almost just […]

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August 29, 2021
How To Make Your Boyfriend Happy (51 Ways To Make Your Boyfriend Happy)

You’ll probably agree that men are more likely to go out of their way to make their girlfriends happy. However, all the talk about feminism has made some men realize they need to be spoiled silly in relationships as well.  If your boyfriend is happy in the relationship, you will be satisfied as well. That’s […]

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August 29, 2021
Do Guys Play Hard To Get? (15 Ways They Play Hard To Get)

For the most part, we've all been in a relationship with a guy that’s consistently inconsistent. He has you wondering if you are an over-thinker or overly sensitive.  When a guy plays hard to get, it does not necessarily mean he does not want to be with you. He probably wants to know how serious […]

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August 29, 2021
Being Too Available For Someone (15 Ways To Know When You’re Too Available)

What does it feel like to be at the center of someone else’s life? To be the only person he sees and to be there for him whenever he calls? Does it sound really good or pretty scary?  Practicing transparency with someone you’re in a relationship with is good, but what is the difference between […]

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August 29, 2021
Should I Text Him Back After He Ignored Me? (7 Things To Consider)

When you love a person, you don’t want anything to come in between the bond you share. You just want every day to be good and a smooth relationship. It’s inevitable that there will be occasional lovers spat and you will step on each other’s toes once in a while.  If the relationship is still […]

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Dating Advice

August 29, 2021
If A Guy Wants To Hang Out Alone With You (17 Possible Reasons Why)

You’re likely here because you are puzzled about a certain guy’s sudden advances. Is he just a friend? A love interest or simply a guy friend you want to get to know?  When guy friends ask to spend more time together, it could mean anything. When it’s a guy you hardly know, it’s even more […]

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August 29, 2021
How To Be Mysterious (19 Ways To Be Mysterious To A Man)

Bede Jarret once said, “The mysterious is always attractive. People will always follow a veil”.  There is a certain delight that comes with the unusual. Humans, especially men, like the unattainable; they are curious and like what they do not fully understand. People love the process of learning about the unknown and uncovering it. As […]

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August 29, 2021
How To Make The First Move On A Guy (37 Ways To Make The First Move)

The days when women had to be coy, prim, and proper are far behind. The days of leaving the conversation to men and making it a male affair to initiate the first move are gone with the wind.  However, years of conditioning have made it hard even for the 21st-century woman to make a move. […]

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August 29, 2021
How To Ask A Guy Out (15 Ways To Initiate A Date With A Guy)

Do you ever wonder how incredibly cool the 21st century is that you can do many things without raising eyebrows?  A woman can decide to be a single mother, date as many times as she wants, and as weird as it seems, she can stay single yet have a fun-filled life by marrying herself. So […]

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August 29, 2021
Guys Without Social Media (6 Ways To Handle Them)

There is no gainsaying that social media has dramatically impacted many relationships, both positively and negatively.  Many women, myself inclusive, take to social media to verify the authenticity of any Tom, Dick, or Harry that asks them out on a date. We even go as far as tracing his LinkedIn profile to check the kind […]

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August 29, 2021
What To Text A Guy After A Hookup (27 Insightful Things)

Are you wondering what to text a guy after a hookup? Do you even need to say anything based on how you feel about the hookup? Often, women become emotionally attached after hooking up with men. They feel a connection that may or may not be there.  Of course, I’ve been in your shoes and […]

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Bedroom Advice

August 29, 2021
How To Have Sex With Yourself (71 Masturbation Tips)

Masturbation is that part of puberty nobody wants to talk about. It is forbidden, looked down on ignored. However, that doesn’t make solo sex less popular; almost every lady has sex toys that get her off on those sexually frustrating days.  Solo sex is said to be one of the most intimate sexual activities, which […]

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August 29, 2021
My Husband Can't Come Anymore (7 Possible Reasons He Can’t Come Anymore)

Contrary to popular belief that ejaculation difficulties are rare in men, most sex therapists and health experts have revealed that they’re common. The inability to orgasm, also known as anorgasmia in medical terms, is one of such complications.  Most experts have discovered the link between this condition and some mental and psychological issues in men, […]

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June 24, 2021
How to Tell If a Guy Is a Virgin (27 Ways To Tell If A Man Is A Virgin)

Do you feel your new man is a virgin, and you want to find out?  The truth is, there’s no actual way to find out, neither is there a medical test that can prove if he’s one or not. The only plausible way to tell if your man is a virgin is by asking him […]

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June 24, 2021
Eye Contact During Sex (9 Tips For Making Eye Contact During Sex)

When it comes to intimacy between two people, you’ll probably agree that it’s possible to either have raw sex or make love. If you notice the sexual spark between you and your man isn’t quite what it used to be, it may be because you both have unconsciously made a habit of just having sex […]

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May 6, 2021
Do Guys Like Bush Or No Bush (11 Opinions Guys Have About Pubic Hair)

Surely, there must be lots of opinions regarding a sensitive issue such as this; in fact, it’s safe to say that the jury is divided.  For many ladies, hair removal is a must; they grew up with this hygiene regime and don’t fail to shave at least every two weeks or once a month.  However, […]

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April 13, 2021
How To Dominate Your Man (13 Surefire Ways)

Do you want to know how to dominate your man? Do you feel that your guy takes control too often? Do you need to know how to be dominant in your sex life?  You may feel like your man is too dominant sexually or just in general, and maybe you’re ready to take control of […]

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Cheating & Infidelity

August 3, 2021
How To Stop Being Strung Along By A Guy (17 Tips To Guide You)

Are you currently dating a guy but not sure where you stand with him?  If so, you are probably more sad than happy and more confused than secure with this guy. So, if you are reading this, it’s because you suspect you are being strung along by him. Or maybe, he is stringing someone along […]

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July 13, 2021
Cookie Jarring In Relationships (11 Signs You’re A Victim)

Cookie jarring is one of the hottest dating trends, but there’s nothing sexy about this one. When a person is cookie jarring you, it means that they are already either in a serious relationship or actively pursuing one with someone, yet are still talking to you.  This is one of the sweetest dating terms for […]

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July 13, 2021
How To Get Revenge On A Guy Who Played You (17 Ways To Make Him Pay)

If you’re reading this article, you’re probably the one that was wronged and now you’re looking for ways to get revenge on the guy that hurt you. Some people might disagree with the entire concept of revenge, but I cheer women on, particularly if it’s directed towards someone that hurt them in a relationship.  Relationships […]

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April 13, 2021
15 Painful Signs He Loves His Mistress (Is It More Than Just Sex?)

It is no news that infidelity is one of the top contributors to marriage failures. In the United States, for instance, affairs add up to 40% of the cause of divorce.  Going by several indications, history inclusive, cheating is hardly a new trend. People have been stepping out on their partners since time immemorial. Nevertheless, […]

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January 27, 2021
What Is Considered Cheating? (9 Main Examples)

In the simplest terms, cheating is an act of dishonesty that gains you an unfair advantage. There are different types of cheating, but we’ll be focusing on cheating as it affects relationships. According to studies, it has been found that people who cheat in one relationship are three times more likely to cheat in the […]

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November 26, 2020
How To End An Affair (9 Ways To Break Free From An Affair)

Letting go of a relationship is one of the hardest decisions anyone can make. Nevertheless, it’s recommended to allow yourself, and others around you, to move forward. You need to heal, and to allow other healthy relationships in your life blossom.  You also need to allow yourself fully love the one you’re already committed to […]

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