29 Seductive Words To Say To A Man (To Make Him Want You)

Last updated on June 18, 2022 by April Maccario

Men think it’s very important for their women to show them sexual desire; it indicates to them that they are wanted, which turns them on. 

In fact, one study showed that almost 95% of men consider sexual desire to be very important to their sexual adventures. The study found that these men felt wanted by their women, especially when they were flirtatious toward them.

When women show their interest in having sex with their men, the men feel sexual desire and interest in having sex. 

In other words, men want their women to show that they are wanted. Men want to know that their women really are sexually attracted to them. Now what these women need to know is how to convey their sexual desire and what to say when they initiate things.

The best way to do this is to learn how to seduce men. This article will explain how to seduce a man by learning what seductive words to say to a man to make him want you (more).

What To Say To Make A Man Want You

These examples will help you open up your imagination when it comes to dirty talk. Notice how most of these phrases end with a question mark. This is because you want to be engaging; you want him to write you back and discuss his opinion on what you said. Keep it interesting but also get him on the same page as you, so you can continue the conversation to the bedroom!

  1. I want to show you how I feel. Are you ready to find out just what I’m talking about?
  2. I’m feeling quite naughty. Will you find a way to punish me tonight?
  3. I can’t stop thinking about your mouth. Will you give it to me, please?
  4. I’m starving! Will you give me a chance to eat my food off your body tonight?
  5. If I let you do anything to my body, what would you like to do?
  6. You are going to need all your energy tonight, so eat up!
  7. I don’t want to hold anything back tonight when we have sex. Are you ready?
  8. I’m going to put on a pair of sexy high heels and nothing else. Care to join?
  9. Tonight, I want you to live out your favorite sexual fantasy. What will it be?
  10. My panties get soaking wet every time I think about what I’m going to do to you tonight!
  11. Find me later tonight because I’m going to be a genie granting your sexual wishes!
  12. I can’t find another man who turns me on as much as you. I need your body!
  13. Tonight, I’m going to find you and open up your sexual fantasies because I’m about to explode!
  14. I find it hard to control myself when I’m around you. Will you open up my sexual world?
  15. I can’t stop myself from being open and telling you that I can’t stop thinking about what I get to do to you tonight!
  16. Will you find me later and give me the naughtiest treatment in the world?
  17. Tonight I’m going to get you to open up because I am down for anything!
  18. My libido is off the charts! Will you please find a way to appease my sexual appetite?
  19. Do you like it loud? I think you will find that I can’t help myself with you!
  20. I feel like you are perfect! The only thing I’d change is your clothes. Can you find a way to lose them?
  21. I love whipped cream! I want to lather you up and eat dessert off you. Will you let me?
  22. I just blew my paycheck on lingerie and sex toys. Do you want to help me open up my packages and let me model for you?
  23. I need a strong, sexy handyman to do some chores for me without his shirt on. Will you be one for me?
  24. I had a dream last night where you were being very naughty. Will you find time to open up and act it out with me?
  25. All I want is you inside of me. Can we find a way to make that happen soon?
  26. What can I do to you to make you as turned on as I am right now?
  27. Tonight I’m going to open up and make it all about you. Are you ready?
  28. I have a big surprise present for you in my bedroom. Will you open it up?
  29. The second I find and see you tonight, I’m going to open up your jacket and get you naked!

How To Open Up To Win Him Over

1. Compliment him

Compliment him

Take this time to open up about how you feel about how he looks. Tell him what you love about him. Say, “You are so sexy!” By saying this, you are letting him know that you feel lucky that you were able to find a man like him because you think he’s a hot one! He’ll know you find him to be sexy and love his body. Show him you care about his appearance and value his looks.

Understand that guys need validation to know that you find them sexy! Think about it. Your man doesn’t want to find out that he was just the one that was nearest to you or a more convenient choice. Instead, he wants to know you find him to be the one that turns you on like no other man. Find ways to stroke his ego; make it clear that he is the only one for you!

Say the right thing, and you will find that he will open up sexually. He’ll be happy to be with you because you want his body and love him for who he is. If you’ve been together for a long time, it’s a good idea to let your man know that he still does it for you. Tell him how much you still appreciate and love your sex life with him. Then, sit back and watch the sparks fly!

2. What you feel right now

It’s a good idea to talk about your feelings when trying to turn a guy on. Obviously, if you’re reading this, you want to spice up your love life a little bit. So, what can you say to really get under a guy’s skin? Start by talking about how you feel at the moment, but be confident that you can keep that feeling going. What am I talking about? Your hormones, clearly!

Talk about how turned on you are! There’s no better way to get under a guy’s boxers than to tell him all about your hormones. Talk about how hot you are. You could text him something like, “Wow! I am so horny right now that I’m physically hot! I think the people around me are starting to notice. What are you going to do about it, love?” Throw the ball in his court!

Before you know it, he’ll be coming home from work early to strip you down and have a sweet lovemaking session. Your erotic desires will be met if you do well with dirty talk. If you do it, after a while, you’ll find that it will be easy to open yourself up and share your feelings with your boyfriend or husband. Do you think you can do that? Be confident and know that you can!

3. What you have on

Share with your lover what you are wearing (or not wearing). Talk about it slowly, too. Give him a chance to picture in his head what exactly you have on. Talk about the f#ck me boots you own or are wearing or rock some super high heels! Say something like, “Would you like to come over and join me and my f#ck me boots? I’d love to try them out!” He’ll want to rush right over!

Then, discuss the gorgeous lingerie or sexy underwear you have on. Open up on this topic, and talk about where you purchased it from, how much you spent, and whether you have worn it yet or not. You could open the conversation up by saying something like, “You think this is hot? You should see what I have on underneath!” This is the perfect thing to say in person.

Another option is to send him a selfie of you looking super sexy and then say something about what you have on underneath. If you really want him to open up on the subject (and trust him), send him a nude photo or one of you modeling some lingerie or sexy underwear. He’ll be so excited to come over and undress that gorgeous stuff off of you!

4. What you want to do

What you want to do

Think about all the things you would like him to do to you. Imagine you could have the most pleasurable sexual experience in the world. What is going on in your imagination right now? Be open to new thoughts and experiences, and call up your boyfriend or husband and tell him exactly what is going on in your head. He’ll be shocked at your candor and will love it!

Another thing you can share with your boyfriend or husband is what you plan to do to him. This is an opportunity to really get him turned on! You can discuss things you have already done to him that he loves, such as giving him a blow job. You can also talk about the things that you know he wants to try, but the two of you have not had the chance to try yet. He’ll start drooling!

Alternatively, you could ask him what he’d like to try; get him to open up about something he’s always wanted to do in the bedroom, but you haven’t had a chance to do yet. This will help you understand what is on his mind, what his fantasies are, and what you could do differently in the bedroom. Take a moment to listen carefully to what he thinks about you and his sex life.


How can I seduce him with words?

Every time you see your man and want him to open up and find a sexual connection, talk softly. It doesn’t matter what you have to say; men love it when they get their ego stroked. Every time you talk dirty to him, mention what you love about his body.

What are some seductive words?

You can make just about any number of words sexy by whispering them in your man’s ear. Get his attention and help him open up sexually by talking about what he likes in the bedroom. Every time you want to talk about sex, whisper your words softly.

What to say to a man to make him feel good?

Increase your man’s sexual appetite by talking dirty with him. This will also boost his self-esteem and make him want you more. You may want to tell him how sexy you think he is. Explain how much you love his physical appearance. Improve his self-confidence.

What are some romantic words to say to a guy?

Get creative and open up with the words you use on your man. Consider talking to him about what you’d like to get him to do in the bedroom. Just hearing how creative your words can be will get your man to open up on the subject of sex.

How can I seduce him without words?

You can send him text messages with emojis that express the words you’d like to say, like the eggplant. Sometimes, the best way to open a man up, sexually, is to get him thinking about what you have in mind without actually saying anything. Leave something to the imagination.

To Sum Things Up...

When you open your mouth to talk about sex, you may find that the words don’t come out naturally. That’s why this article will help you open up and find your inner temptress. 

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April Maccario
I'm a huge nerd when it comes to understanding how relationships between men and women work, and what drives a certain behavior. I spend much of my time getting into the nitty-gritty and try to share my findings on this site with the hope of making life a little easier for women that are struggling in their relationships or love life.

One comment on “29 Seductive Words To Say To A Man (To Make Him Want You)”

  1. I struggle with dating and communicating with men. I met someone who seems generally interested in me. I need helped keeping him interested in me. 48 and never married.

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