How To Tease A Guy (51 Raunchy Ways To Excite Your Partner)

Last updated on June 11, 2022 by April Maccario

Good sex is not just about the climax, but the journey to reaching climax, and because sex is a big part of a relationship between people who deeply love each other and want to be as intimate as possible, it is very important to constantly make things sexy in and out of the bedroom.

How then do you keep your man in the right mood for sex with or without him being aware that is what you’re doing? 

The overall way of doing this is to keep your guy in a constant state of sexual tension, and the key is finding out how to turn on your man. Sex teasing will give your partner a lot to think about and get him pumped in all the right places. 

However, how do you give a man what he wants if you don’t know the different ways to tease him? 

Apparently, many women like to think teasing is a special trick and only a femme fatale can master the art of seduction. This thought is actually not true, teasing is not a modern art and it can be mastered by any woman who wants to give their partner that extra zing in the bedroom

Teasing A Man

Teasing or seducing a man is an art as old as time and any woman can easily wield the power of teasing if she is willing to tap into her feminine wiles. Women, because of social restrictions, have been forced to adopt subtle means of seduction, e.g. teasing, in order to express their sexuality. 

On the flip side, if you already know how to make your partner feel great in the bedroom but want a fresh new way to heat up the sexual tension and surprise him, then you will learn something new under this post. 

Certainly, the subtle art of flirting can be more potent than hard-core sex kinks. When you make use of these tactics, you’ll master how to tease a man you like in no time. 

Ways To Tease Your Partner 

ways to tease your partner
  • Touch him casually on the arm, thighs, shoulders, neck, and other parts of the body that can slowly increase his blood pressure. Make sure you’re gentle, let him see how much you enjoy touching him, and give him access to your body as well. 
  • Masturbate while he watches, that is sure to drive him crazily hard quickly. It’s the quickest way to make him want you; let him see you sensually touching yourself, it only increases the drive both of you already have going.
  • Take off your bra and leave your shirt on, you get bonus points if you are putting on his shirt. Doing something like this would make him want to reach out almost immediately, but make sure you’re out of reach initially to amp up the anticipation.
  • Doing a striptease is always sure to get the blood rushing to the right places, make sure to do it putting on sexy lingerie. 
  • Whisper something in a seductive way into his ear. This kind of dirty talk will end up in raunchy moments. 
  • Playing an adult board game can be physically and mentally stimulating. Get one that can take you both from teasing to hot sex in minutes. 
  • Caress his thigh and knees with your toes while you’re eating out. Be sure to start right from when you’re eating the main dish so that he’ll be ready to tear your clothes off by the time you’re finished with desserts. 
  • In a sexy voice relay to him all, you’re planning on doing to him on the bed, make sure you don’t go overboard, you want to keep it realistic, but very still very sexy.
  • Watch a pornographic or sexy movie to spice up the mood especially on days you’re finding it hard to do the teasing. 
  • Sit on his lap and slightly wiggle like you’re uncomfortable, then act like you’re unaware of his stiffy.
  • Tease him by asking him to check your panties while putting on a skirt, remember to take your time, and put on the skirt in a seductive way, it won’t stay on for long though!
  • Sometimes send him nudes or pictures of parts of your body, make sure your poses are seductive and inviting.
  • When you cuddle, tease him by rubbing your butt against his trouser fly, it’s the easiest way of saying “I want you.”
when you cuddle tease him by rubbing your butt against his trouser fly
  • While trying to grab something from the floor, bend over, and give him an eyeful view of your ass.
  • While reaching for something on a high shelf let your top ride up and show him a bit of your midriff and breasts. You can also bend over and tease him with a glimpse of your cleavage. 
  • Instead of rushing to the next base, take a long time making out. Involve lots of tongue and fondling.
  • Strut around his apartment in your lingerie. If he’s your husband, well, that makes it your apartment too, so be confident and flaunt that sexy body.
  • Go naked and ask him to massage you, it’s one of the easiest ways to tease your partner. Of course, that will lead to more interesting sex activities.
  • Licking food has always been something guys find sexy, so lick that ice cream or anything that can be licked off your fingers or his.
  • Get playfully aggressive by slapping his ass when he passes by you.
  • Get cuddly and hug him from behind with a kiss on his neck.
  • Undress in front of him without making it look like you’re performing a striptease. 
  • Bite, pucker, and lick your lips seductively. Men generally love this, so you can hardly go wrong with using your lips as sensual torment, especially if the man likes you.
  • Surprise him by opening his jeans without saying anything. Then do something or nothing at all.
  • Lap dances like stripteases are an age-old practice of teasing if you do it slowly and well. You’ll want to practice this on your own first if you’re not conversant with sensual moves. 
  • Engage in highly stimulating sexting which will have him rubbing a quick one in the office. 
  • Flash him different parts of your body at different times of the day. Your panties, thigh, vagina, breast, anything that will set him on edge.
  • Play sexy music so you can dance to and just grind against him.
play sexy music you can dance to and just grind against him
  • Showering together builds intimacy and of course helps to initiate sex, maybe even shower sex.
  • Randomly leave sex toys on the bed or various parts of the house. So long as there are no children or guests around.
  • Giving him a full body massage and paying attention to his erogenous zones will get him fully ready to pound you to climax. 
  • Playing with his hair, neck, and ears can be highly stimulating and get him in the mood.
  • Throw in your secret fantasies during a sexy discussion, the idea alone can get him erect.
  • Read an erotic novel and let him catch you at it. 
  • Throw around sexy and dirty compliments of how he looks. Accompany the compliments with a come-here look, then tell him how much you want him.
  • Introduce intrigues such as leaving him a trail of notes that will lead him to where you have planned a ‘sexscapade.’ 
  • Get your kink on and act like you’re in charge by tying him to the bed with soft padded handcuffs. 
  • Switch to dim sexy night lights to show him you’re in the mood for some good loving.
  • Food can act as a good sex stimulant. Prepare his favorite dish and light up the dinner table with romantic scented candles.
  • Drink and eat sexually during dinner, you can also make some sexy appreciative noise for the food.
  • Rub lotion or sweet-smelling oil on your chest, butt, and legs with his eyes on you. 
  • Light candles in the bedroom, he doesn’t need you to tell him what you need because this speaks volumes about your desire.
  • Wear a see-through dress or a skintight nude one that makes it look like you’re naked.
  • Perfume is a heady aphrodisiac that can get a man in the mood. Be sure it’s a one with soft sexy scent.
  • Give him a handjob while watching a movie or relaxing on the couch is a good precedent to sex
  • Men love blowjobs, start by telling him how much you want to put ‘him’ in your mouth, then give him a good ‘experience.’
  • Playact by wearing old sexy Halloween costumes or other sexy costumes to enhance bedroom plays.
  • Wear a bodycon dress that will drive him wild.
  • Enhance the atmosphere by playing sensual music.
  • Play an audio version of an erotic novel.
  • Give him a full body massage and pay attention to his erogenous zones.


How do you tease a guy you like?

The first step to teasing a man you like is to know the kind of man he is. There is hardly a ‘one size fits all’ method to romance or sex. Men and their wants are peculiar, so what worked just fine with your ex might not work for the person you’re currently dating or married to. 

Therefore, it is better that you take time to study what works for your man and get to know what you do that he likes a lot. You don’t want to be rebuffed or rewarded with disinterest, so be patient to study him before introducing some sex teases.

For some guys, playful bangers and dirty innuendos get them in the mood while others might prefer direct seduction like going all naked or just telling them what you need. 

How do I sexually tease my husband?

If he is your husband, you’ll be spending your whole life with him, and so you’re at liberty to try different tricks with him that will keep you both feeling always young and free. One teasing trick you can use on your husband is to caress his leg with your toes and the flat side of your foot. Go as high as you can and even get as daring as lightly stroking his penis through his pants. 

Another one is grinding yourself against his crotch while you’re in the elevator with other people and you know he can’t do anything to reciprocate at the moment. It will drive him wild and make him pounce on you as soon as you get home.

How do you tease a guy with pictures?

When it comes to picture teasing, it is not just about sending him nudes, even though nudes get the message across clearly, but about sending subtle messages that would have him guessing what you’re trying to do. Try taking a picture of you wearing his shirt with a few buttons left open. 

Showing a little cleavage combined with him seeing you in his shirt has a high tendency of arousing him and making him feel possessive at the same time. Try this trick and you’d be surprised at his response, you can also send pictures of your thigh or cleavage only, they work just fine too.

Do guys like when you tease them?

Men like to be teased because they also do it all the time, teasing starts from playful banters to touching and deliberate seduction. To know if a man really likes you, he will connect with you at all three levels: talking, touching, and during sex. So don’t be hesitant about teasing your man.

How do you tease a guy without being obvious?

The things that turn men on are things most women don’t pay attention to or consider important. By simply running your hands through your tresses or over your neck can make a man aroused. Licking your lips, going braless, wearing his shirt or cologne, or even looking sweaty after working out are all examples of things that can make your man pull you close and ravish you.

In A Nutshell

If you’ve been tied up in knots over what to do to tease and put your man in that sexual mood, do make good use of these tips. No doubt, being shy can be a big problem for attracting men, but you can overcome difficulties with making a man crazy for you if you’re willing to practice and master flirting and teasing. No, you don’t need to fake it to get your man in the mood. When you let your mind and body take over, the sexual attraction will happen naturally.

Also remember, in the bedroom, it’s solely between you and your partner. So, forget society and decency, let him see that inner seductress comes out to play. That’s the only way you’ll be open enough to go the extra mile to have fun and enjoy the many pleasures a simple sex tease guarantees. 

Don’t forget to leave your thoughts about the post and if you know other women or even men who need these tips too, feel free to send their way.

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April Maccario
I'm a huge nerd when it comes to understanding how relationships between men and women work, and what drives a certain behavior. I spend much of my time getting into the nitty-gritty and try to share my findings on this site with the hope of making life a little easier for women that are struggling in their relationships or love life.

One comment on “How To Tease A Guy (51 Raunchy Ways To Excite Your Partner)”

  1. Hello April,
    My name is Scott and I am a fireman. I loved your article on teasing and wish there were more ladies who love and teasing a guy. A lady teased me at the mall the other day and I smiled and she continued and she saw the bulge and the wet spot on my khaki shorts and smiled at me and walked by me and asked if I needed some napkins and asked if she could wipe it up and I smiled and said thank you. Why can’t there be more ladies like that. Who would tease and make you excited and watch you leak.
    Hope to talk more with you soon.


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