Guys Without Social Media (6 Ways To Handle Them)

by April Maccario

There is no gainsaying that social media has dramatically impacted many relationships, both positively and negatively. 

Many women, myself inclusive, take to social media to verify the authenticity of any Tom, Dick, or Harry that asks them out on a date. We even go as far as tracing his LinkedIn profile to check the kind of job he does or his profession. 

Social media has also saved many of us from venturing into a wild goose chase with guys that weren’t worth the effort. For instance, many women would have ended up dating a seemingly cute guy with violent and abusive tendencies or worse without social media. Besides, we can tell a lot about a guy from who he follows and what he posts online. 

But, have you ever met a guy with no social media presence whatsoever? What of the guys with various accounts that are void of any factual information? Chances are, dating guys like this could either prove worthwhile or disastrous in the end. 

Are you wondering how to handle guys who have no online presence? Please continue reading to learn practical ways on how to deal with them. 

6 Ways To Handle Them

1. Try knowing them the old fashioned way

You’re probably dating someone who is indifferent to platforms like Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram, or a guy that isn’t moved by the craze associated with such trends. 

The best way to cope with them is to try to relate with them the old-fashioned way. Come to think of it; our parents didn’t have Facebook or Twitter, yet they could make their relationships work. 

People who don’t use social media still have something to offer, if not more. If you are yet to meet him physically, you both can make use of text messages or calls to keep in touch. Additionally, couples also use romantic dinners, weekends, or dates to get to know themselves. 

2. Introduce them to it

introduce them to it

Partners complement one another in areas where they are lagging behind. So, if social media is so much of a big deal to you, why not introduce him to the trend? Or better still, guide him through the basics of how to set up his online profiles. 

Chances are, your partner may not be tech-savvy or tech-oriented. Furthermore, in a bid to make you happy, your partner might be open to adapting to the culture of using social media. Besides, what is a relationship without a bit of compromise and sacrifice? 

3. Apply yourself more in the relationship

There’s an upside to being with someone without any social media accounts. You get to spend a lot of quality time with him in real life and bask in the euphoria of the moment for starters. 

What’s more, you both can take personal trips and have the moment to yourselves without any of your followers' opinions to think about.

The best thing you can do for your partner is to dedicate more of your time to the relationship. By applying yourself more, you are giving the union a chance to blossom and thrive. At least now, rest assured that you will have your partner’s undivided attention whenever you are together. 

4. Learn to live with each other’s social differences

Okay, so this guy you’ve been dating for months says, “I don’t use social media”. Go easy with the pressure. As much as you are so hung up on the idea of having an online presence, this guy may not be open to it. 

Women are fond of showing off their relationships on social media to awe their followers. We’re so giddy with excitement when it comes to sharing our love life with the public. 

In a bid to showcase their relationships, a lot of women have ended up choking their less social media savvy partners. 

Rather than ruin your beautiful relationship with someone special, why not learn to live in the present with him? Social media life could be a way for you to live, but it may not be the same for this guy. 

5. Find out those things that catch his fancy

There’s a famous saying that goes like this – nature abhors a vacuum. If your partner doesn’t spend his free time on his phone checking his notifications and updates, then something else is taking up his time. 

Your significant other may have interests in the outdoors, books, politics, religion, or something else. Finding out how he spends his free time is a subtle way of knowing how to deal with a guy like this. Once you figure out his interests, the next thing is to learn something or two about them. 

The reason for learning about his interests is simple – it goes a long way to show him how much you are willing to make the relationship work. Additionally, you won’t be lost for words whenever you find yourself with his cycle of friends. 

6. Get into his inner circle

get into his inner circle

Even though you're dating someone that doesn’t really have an online presence, that shouldn’t be an excuse not to meet his close friends and family members. Meeting people who matter to him gives you an objective insight into your partner. It invariably means that you no longer have to judge him prematurely or based on what you’ve seen or heard before meeting him. 

You could accompany him to family get-togethers, work retreats, and hangouts with friends. Chances are, you’ll find out that your significant other is not as boring as you make him out to be. What’s more? You get to see a different side of him with so many experiences and knowledge to share from those who know and love him.

FAQs

Can a person live without social media?

Contrary to popular belief, a life void of an active presence on social media is possible, notwithstanding the frenzy times we live in. Deciding to live your life outside of social media may prove difficult at first, but it’s entirely possible. Looking on the bright side, you get to be yourself and improve your physical friendships

How can I find someone without social media?

Thanks to traditional and technological means, you can find whoever you want from anywhere in the world. Phone number directories are one of the conventional methods of getting the contact information of a person. Additionally, Google search and people search platforms also come in very handy in situations like this.

Is not having social media a red flag?

This is a two-way street; the person may be intentionally hiding specific details about his life, or he is just indifferent about social media. Nevertheless, not participating in social networking shouldn’t be considered a red flag. Additionally, you shouldn’t feel embarrassed or ashamed about your man not using social media. 

How can I live without social media?

There are a thousand and one things you can use to replace social media in your life. For starters, you have to quit the platforms entirely by shutting down your social media networks and deleting the apps entirely. Furthermore, you can utilize other communication forms, like text messages and voice calls, in reaching out to your friends and family. 

Is it good to take a break from social media?

The constant use of social media is detrimental to our mental health and can lead to low self-esteem, anxiety, depression, social isolation, and more. Taking timely breaks from social media can do you a lot of good health-wise. Besides, these breaks give you time to do other things like reading, exercise, and socializing. 

In Conclusion 

I hope you found this article interesting and insightful as well. I’m sure by now, you have discovered how to deal with guys who don’t use social media. If yes, kindly share your thoughts in the comments section below. Feel free to share this article on your social networks so others can learn a thing or two. 

April Maccario
I'm a huge nerd when it comes to understanding how relationships between men and women work, and what drives a certain behavior. I spend much of my time getting into the nitty-gritty and try to share my findings on this site with the hope of making life a little easier for women that are struggling in their relationships or love life.

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