151 Flirty Texts For Him (That Actually Work)

Last updated on June 11, 2022 by April Maccario

Have you noticed how easy it is to hit up a girlfriend in the morning or even at night, share a couple of funny jokes, and generally have a good time chatting until you sleep off? However, it’s almost the opposite of a guy you like? 

Every time, it feels like so much effort has to be put into keeping the text messages lively, sexy, and of course, flirty. 

Well, funny enough, even for people who are naturals at sending flirty text messages, there’s always something that could go wrong; sending the wrong text messages or emoji, saying something too forward, or giving too much information. Just one text can make the conversation uncomfortable or steer things in an awkward direction. 

Composing flirty texts are one thing, but what if you don’t know how to keep the conversation going? For some millennials, sending flirty text messages comes quite easy for them, they know how to get a guy to want them. However, you’re probably here wondering, “how do I make him want me? 

Flirty Text Messages To Send To A Crush Or Boyfriend

flirty text messages to send to a crush or boyfriend

Here’s the thing, flirty text messages don’t have to be overly provocative or nasty, it’s like an ocean on a cool summer evening; there should be a nice, sexy flow to it and you should let him know how you feel. I’ll be lying if I say it’s okay to just be yourself, cause flirting texts are almost the opposite, it’s about being more confident, naughty, creative, and sexier than usual.

So you may really like this guy, and you’re asking “How do I let him know how much I love him, or tell him in a good way how much I think about him all day?” Well, without wasting any more time, let’s talk about those flirty text messages that will make him want you even more.

  • Are your parent’s architects - or why are you so damn well built?
  • Kiss me, I'm an enchanted fully automatic coffee machine - and here's the crossbar!
  • I forgot my phone number. Can I have yours?
  • Do you have water in your legs or why is my divining rod swinging out?
  • I’m thinking of your manhood right now.
  • What do I do for a living? I am a caretaker. Should I scrub your pelvis?
  • I hope you are insured. You just made a bump in my pants!
  • (Slightly bump into the woman) Sorry! I don't have the right brakes for your sharp turns.
  • Are your parents terrorists? You are hot as a bomb!
  • Are you a Harry Potter fan? You just really enchanted me!
  • Are you from Chernobyl? Your charisma is amazing!
  • Your mother really has a beautiful daughter.
  • Well cuts, already occupied?
  • Hey sorry. Which pick-up line works best for you?
  • Stop staring at my eyes with your breasts!
  • What other sights are there in the city besides you?
  • I'm really not a woman for one night. But I would make an exception for you.
  • Can I take a photo with you? I have to show Santa Claus what I want.
  • Bad news: I have to keep you here for observation overnight.
  • Tell me, are you alone now?
  • Do you find me better with or without makeup? Natural or made up? I'm just curious.
  • What is your favorite underwear for women? I'm so shy, but you still have no idea what I really think.
  • Sometimes, I can't believe how much I lose control when I think of you.
  • I want to tell you things, but I'm not ready to show you everything yet. As soon as I feel comfortable, you will see a completely different person. 
  • Hey you - I'm in a very strange mood right now. I have just taken a bath and am very restless. How are you?
  • I think I’m crazy about you.
i think i'm crazy about you
  • I know you've been thinking about me all day ... how about we put the thoughts into action?
  • What is your favorite part of my body?
  • I can't stop laughing at the sex scene I've just seen.
  • Okay seriously, what's your weirdest fetish?
  • I have such a perverse sense of humor!
  • Why can't everyone just have sex and relax? It feels so good. Especially when you feel comfortable and open with each other.
  • It would be so funny if you suddenly got in the mood in front of everyone at work.
  • I can’t stop sending you raunchy texts.
  • I can't stop thinking about very dirty things ... can you help me?
  • I'm sooo bored and I don't know what to do with myself. Any ideas?
  • Why am I suddenly a little turned on? I want one more night with you.
  • I have a little bit of a problem opening my bra. Can you come over and help me with that? 
  • I want to make love to you.
  • What would be the hottest thing I can do for you when we see each other?
  • I saw a movie earlier and completely forgot how hot the sex scenes are. Seriously, I was pretty upset. My goodness.
  • Man, all the yoga made me pretty agile!
  • Sooo - I'm not wearing panties right now. I want you in them.
  • I can't wait to see you right away.
  • I am so sad that I cannot be in your bed now. But in two days. 
  • I can't wait ... I get really hot just thinking about it.
  • I'm sitting here right now and can't concentrate because I know I'll see you in a minute.
  • So ... then what are we going to do later in the evening?
  • I can hardly stand how much I want it. You know what I mean.
  • Temptation is sexy. This sexy news will stimulate his thoughts and initiate teasing, flirting, and sexy banter ... and maybe lead to something more.
  • Craziest imagination?
craziest imagination
  • Weirdest thing that turns you on?
  • Tell me if that sounds strange now ... I don't really want to say it out loud and it's a bit embarrassing, but it totally turns me on.
  • What is your biggest sexual fantasy? Tell me. Doesn't matter how funky it is, I'd just like to know. 
  • Last night I had a really dirty dream - and you were definitely there.
  • Would you rather have sex in public or in the car?
  • What was the hottest sex you've ever had? I find it really hot to hear such things. 
  • Do you sometimes like it when the woman takes the helm?
  • I'm really weird, when I'm really turned on, a completely different side of me comes to light.
  • Guess what I'm wearing right now.
  • Just wanted to write to you that I'm lying naked on the bed thinking about you."
  • Do we want to play a game, one says something and the other has to do it? You start.
  • Do you find it exciting when I'm excited? I find it totally exciting when you are so excited that you lose control. 
  • I love you so much that it turns me on when you're aroused.
  • I can't sleep - Imagine what we would do if you were here with me now.
  • I wish I was lying next to you now ... naked.
  • When you touch me, I feel like I'm on another planet.
  • When you kiss me, it feels like an electric current is running through my body. Such an intense feeling. 
  • Making love with you feels different than anything I've ever experienced. Then I'm in a completely different world. 
  • I could just be touched by you forever. It is the best and gentlest feeling in the world. 
  • I need you. Everything about you. And I want to give you what I am. everything about me. I've never felt anything like this before. 
  • I loved how you inserted a dirty thing here last night ** that he did **. It totally turned me on. 
  • Make my day and come over right now.
  • I'm trying on lingerie right now. Can you come over and help me? 
  • If we were together now, what would you like me to do with you?
  • Man, you're so sexy, that's really not fair. I can't get enough of you. 
  • My God. I want you so much.
my god i want you so much
  • My body absolutely has to be pressed against yours. I don't even have a choice. My body craves it. 
  • Have you ever done it in a public place? Just as a question. Lol. 
  • Would you consider it cheating if I make out with another woman?
  • How do you prefer it downstairs? Shaved? Trimmed? 
  • What is the most sensitive part of your body?
  • I need you. Here. Now.
  • I love it when you ___ ** insert a certain sexual thing that he did that made you hot **.
  • Every inch of your body is perfect. I could only look at you all day. 
  • Why can't I stop thinking about you and me ... and the back seat of a car?
  • If he asks what you're doing, answer "um, I'm doing it myself.''
  • I can't believe how good it felt last night when you ____. I can’t wait to see you again.
  • You don't even know how hot it is to see yourself excited.
  • I want you to use me as your personal toy. I am only made for your lust
  • Do you know what turns me on? To be completely naked in front of you and you look at me and my.
  • I love to really let you see everything in me.
  • It makes me crazy to spoil myself in front of you. I don't know either, I just think it's so hot. 
  • I love it when you grab my hair and bump me against a couch or something. And just take full control. 
  • A woman who takes control has something incredibly erotic. Don't you think? 
  • Better forget how excited I was last night. It's embarrassing.
  • I will never forget how it felt when you kissed me for the first time.
  • I'm a little ... lol. I can't say it, but it's a little dirty. 
  • Do you know how much I love your manhood? I can’t wait to see it again.
  • How often do you do it yourself?
  • Is it weird to be treated as an object, as a man?
  • Do you find strippers hot or not?
  • I would like to know how I can be more open with my feelings.
i would like to know how i can be more open with my feelings
  • Oh man, my head is completely scattered today. I also don’t know why! 
  • Question: Do you have any fantasies?
  • Tell me a secret. A hearty one. 
  • How often do you watch 'dirty' things?
  • Somehow I can't stop licking lollipops today.
  • I have a really cool alarm clock. Would you like to hear him ring tomorrow morning? 
  • When I see you, my breath is really gone. Can you do mouth-to-mouth resuscitation?
  • You are as cute as these colorful bear lollipops from my childhood. Can I lick you?
  • Should I show you a really cool magic trick? First, we have sex and then you disappear!
  • If I were a watermelon, would you swallow or spit my seeds?
  • One way or another, can’t stop my thought about you.
  • You make me crazy. You were running through my mind all day.
  • You are so hot that I get a very dry mouth. Can I sip some of your juice?
  • Would you like a cream filling?
  • My mouth is dry, can I lick you?
  • Unfortunately, I don't have a big cart to impress you. But a huge four-poster bed. Would you like a jaunt?
  • My day is better after your text
  • My horse is gone. Can I saddle you up?
  • Do you have a fever? You look damn hot.
  • I lost my keys. Can I sleep with you tonight?
  • You stink. Let's go take a shower. 
  • The color of your eyes matches my bedding perfectly.
  • Your outfit is not quite perfect yet. Come on, I'll help you out.
  • You write to me so often. Are you longing for me? Then we should just date
  • Whenever I read your messages, I hear your voice in my head.
  • Are you more of a dog or cat person?
are you more of a dog or cat person
  • Unfortunately, I really don't have a good idea for our first date. 
  • I’m sure your day will be better if I come over.
  • I am particularly happy to get messages from you.
  • Whenever we write, I get in a good mood.
  • We're playing a game now, you start: dog or cat?
  • Do you like animals? Then you can pretend that I have a lot of kittens at home.
  • I always thought superman had wings. What happened to yours?
  • Do you believe in love at first sight or do I have to walk past you again?
  • Kissing is the language of love. Come here and speak out!
  • Was it an earthquake or my heart when I saw you?
  • If you can buy it, I would have to steal you. Because I can't afford such a treasure.
  • Is your father a jeweler? Your eyes shine like diamonds.
  • Hey, can I make short calls on your cell phone? I urgently need to call my dad and introduce you to each other.
  • Are you a lifeguard? Because I'm not a swimmer and when I look you in the eye I'm afraid to drown in it.
  • Do you have a map with you? I can't find the way to your heart on Google Maps!
  • Your charisma is amazing. Maybe that's because you always see the positive in everything.
  • I can't concentrate today. You kept me awake all night and thought about your deep questions. 
  • I was thinking of you all day.
  • Do you know much I miss you? I can't wait to do it again!
  • Sorry ... I just got out of the shower. I was just thinking about you.
  • I had a strange dream about you last night.
  • Don't tire yourself this afternoon. We have plans tonight! 

Tips When Sending Him Flirt Text Messages

1. Think About Your Opener Texts

think about your opener texts

Some people struggle when trying to figure out the right opener for text messages. Does a simple ‘hey,’ suffice, or should you let him know where the conversation is going from the text? When I see a “what’s up,” or “what are you up to,” text message, it doesn’t necessarily make me stop everything I’m doing to reply.

Since you don’t know the person’s mood at the time you’re sending the text message, your opener should be thoughtful, something that will make him interested in the conversation. You could text something like “it’s funny how I couldn’t stop thinking about you all day,” or, “I can’t believe I spent my whole day thinking about you.” 

2. Make Sure The First Few Texts Set The Right Vibe

Flirty texts don’t have to be wild and over-provocative, make sure you’re paying attention to how the other person is responding. It’s one thing to be flirty and send all the right texts, however, it’s another for the guy to respond accordingly. Think about the things he said he likes, and be thoughtful enough to look for funny memes or videos that could make him laugh. 

Make sure you’re not overly critical, or insensitive as you text, give him enough time to respond as well. Don’t wait for every single reply, have it in mind that he may be busy and is reading the texts one at a time, while multi-tasking.

3. Show Him What He’s Missing

Texts don’t have to be limited to typed messages, but you already know that. However, I know a lot of people are hesitant about sending pictures to someone else. If it’s someone you’re close to, and you feel like being a little naughty, you don’t have to go overboard. A nice yet sexy picture of you wearing his shirt, licking a lollipop, or even ice cream could get his attention.

You could even quote a song like “Trying to dress up when I’m missing you,” that will definitely make him smile. Or you could hit him with an “I can’t stop thinking about how nice your room smells,” but then, you’ll have to be creative with the picture you send. It could be you smelling a rose, or just lying seductively on your pillow, he’ll get the message. 

4. Ask A Flirty Question In The First Few Texts

ask a flirty question in the first few texts

“I’m thinking about buying new lingerie, what color do you think would suit me best?” Yes, make him imagine your entire body, let him think of seeing you in that new color he’ll definitely suggest, that’s the point right? If there’s any way to get a man’s attention, this is definitely one of them.

The good thing about text messages like this is you can send them at any time of the day, in the morning, if you want him to think about you all day, or in the evening when he’s about to come home from work. Text messages like “would you like me to do a striptease for you,” will probably have him beating traffic to get home to you. 

5. Get Him Excited

“I can’t wait to see you later in the day, best believe I’ll be wearing close to nothing when you come over.” Yes girl, take it there if he’s your boyfriend and you have some plans for the night. The thing about sending this message is, you have to be prepared. You shouldn’t get him worked up for nothing.

If you promised him a nice massage, good conversation, and of course, the final course in the bedroom, then you should deliver. It is better to get everything prepared before sending him the message, let him come home to a well-planned setting. 

You’d expect the same if he texted you “I can’t wait to see you tonight,” it would be funny to get home and see him fully indulged in a game right? So you don’t kill the vibe, only text what you can back up, don’t lead him on, or make him believe something will happen when you have no plans to take him to cloud nine and back. 


How do you start a flirty text with a guy?

There are different ways to get things started, you could send a funny meme, photo, or video that you think is hilarious, or ask him how his day went, and if he thought about you at all. Remember to be sweet and thoughtful, you want to know his mood first before sending and flirtatious text.

How can I seduce him with words?

Try using a nickname for a change, pay him compliments, and ask him questions that will have his imagination running wild. You can choose to be direct, or play it subtly, depending on what you want to achieve.

What's a good flirty text?

If you’re feeling a little naughty, you can send him a picture of your nightwear, then text “It’s a new nightgown, I wish you were here to see it.” Of course, it has to be new, or at least one he hasn’t seen before. If you really want to stir his imagination up, you could text “I’m imagining what would happen if you were here tonight.”

What can I text a guy to make him smile?

 “Do you like cuddling, and if you don’t how can I change your mind?” The mere image of both of you cuddling should put a smile on his face. If you want something less forward and more uplifting, try “knowing I have you in my life makes any hard day easier.” 

How do you text flirty?

Sending flirty texts is more bold and daring than sending a regular text, you have to make a good impression. So, sound more confident, sexy, and maybe a little naughty. Think about things he likes, and play around with words. 

To Sum Things Up

I hope you enjoyed reading this list of cute flirty texts and will soon make use of them. Every time you send those cute flirty text messages, remember, you don’t have to overcomplicate things. Keep it simple; where words fail you, use pictures instead. It doesn’t have to be pictures of you, it can be funny memes or pictures of destinations you’d love to visit together. 

I’d love to hear your opinions and contributions as well, kindly leave your comments below, and make your friends happy by sharing these text messages with them.

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April Maccario
I'm a huge nerd when it comes to understanding how relationships between men and women work, and what drives a certain behavior. I spend much of my time getting into the nitty-gritty and try to share my findings on this site with the hope of making life a little easier for women that are struggling in their relationships or love life.

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