Communication is an essential element of any relationship, but what about communicating with an ex-boyfriend? Also, what happens when you send drunk texts to ex-boyfriends? What do guys think about drunk texting? More importantly, how do you get over drunk texts to an ex?
If you find drunk texting to be a normal part of your life, you may want to rethink a few things. You don’t want this to happen again, because you usually regret any mistakes. So, what can you do if this happens to you?
First, you should be more careful when drinking alcohol so that you don’t make mistakes you regret later on. Second, you may want to delete the phone number of your ex so that you aren’t tempted to make repeat offenses. Third, go ahead and block your ex if you are no longer friends with one another or no longer want to have any contact with that person.
In this article, we will go over some great ways to recover from doing something stupid the night before, like when you text an ex that you still want to be with him or say you wish things hadn’t ended when or how it did.
Often, your first instinct when you send something you didn’t mean to is to respond and apologize. This isn’t always the best course of action, because your recipient probably can guess that you were drunk and didn’t mean to communicate with them in the middle of the night. If you didn’t get a response from them, more than likely, they know what’s going on.
There are actions you might want to take to ensure that you aren’t misleading the people you accidentally send messages to. You don’t have to say anything, but you may want to be sure it doesn’t happen again, especially if you said something you regret to someone you don’t want to continue talking to. If there was a messy breakup, you probably made a mistake talking to them.
Consider taking the following actions if you are one of those people who doesn’t like talking to exes after breakups. Many people realize that talking to their exes just leads to the same issues you had when you were in a relationship together. You may start fighting with them even if you’ve agreed it’s over. The last fight you had may just be rehashed forever if you let it happen.
We’re all guilty of drinking too much and making mistakes, but what can you say to people you talk to during your drunken state? People who receive drunken messages from their exes may feel like their exes want them back when really these people were just drunk. In cases like this, it’s a good idea to give these people a good excuse or at least the best excuse you have.
By doing this, you will let these people know that you didn’t mean what you said, that it was an accident and that you have still moved on from the relationships you had with these people. Probably, the last thing you want to happen, as you nurse your hangover, is to have an ex show up at your door, thinking that whatever you said really meant something when it didn’t.
Some people want to hear back from their exes and see this as an opportunity to talk to them again. If you are one of these people, you might want to strike up a conversation by apologizing first and then asking them a question to keep the conversation going. The question is the critical part here because you want them to reply. You’ve got to give them a reason to do so.
You never know; you may find that they are still interested in you, as well. In fact, they may have been delighted that they heard from you and are excited to start something new. They may have been thinking of you this whole time and just were looking for a sign that the two of you could connect together again. Just remember why you broke up to see if the issues are still there.
There are many things you can do after drunk texting your ex. You can tell your ex you accidentally drunk texted him and apologize for your text messages, or you can just ignore the situation and hope that your ex-boyfriend doesn’t say anything about it.
You can, and you may want to, depending on what you said. If you were the one who broke his heart, and you said something like, “I miss you and wish the two of us were back together,” you will want to clarify what you really meant by saying that.
You may want to ignore a drunk text from ex-boyfriends. They may not mean what they said, and you believing what they sent won’t make the words true. How does it affect your life today? Do you believe they really have those feelings and want to get back together?
If you want to get back together, you may want to text your ex to see if they still have feelings for you. If the two of you miss one another, he may want to come back into your life. Make sure you aren’t the only person with feelings, though.
Often, people let alcohol affect their judgment, and they act irresponsibly. If you want to know how to stop drunk texting in your life, the best way is to delete and block your ex or whatever person is bothering you. This way, you won’t be bothered by drunk texts.
Have you ever sent a drunk text message to an ex? What kind of excuses do you use when you wake up discovering you spent the night sending messages to an ex? I’d love to hear from you! Please comment and share this post with someone today!
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