Bede Jarret once said, “The mysterious is always attractive. People will always follow a veil”.  There is a certain delight that comes with the unusual. Humans, especially men, like the unattainable; they are curious and like what they do not fully understand. People love the process of learning about the unknown and uncovering it. As […]

The days when women had to be coy, prim, and proper are far behind. The days of leaving the conversation to men and making it a male affair to initiate the first move are gone with the wind.  However, years of conditioning have made it hard even for the 21st-century woman to make a move. […]

Do you ever wonder how incredibly cool the 21st century is that you can do many things without raising eyebrows?  A woman can decide to be a single mother, date as many times as she wants, and as weird as it seems, she can stay single yet have a fun-filled life by marrying herself. So […]

There is no gainsaying that social media has dramatically impacted many relationships, both positively and negatively.  Many women, myself inclusive, take to social media to verify the authenticity of any Tom, Dick, or Harry that asks them out on a date. We even go as far as tracing his LinkedIn profile to check the kind […]

Are you wondering what to text a guy after a hookup? Do you even need to say anything based on how you feel about the hookup? Often, women become emotionally attached after hooking up with men. They feel a connection that may or may not be there.  Of course, I’ve been in your shoes and […]

Whether you’ve said yes to going on a date with someone weeks ago and you’re now just not feeling it, you’ve planned a date with somebody in advance but you’ve already met someone else or you’re genuinely really interested in the person you have a date planned with but your life is in utter chaos […]

Indeed, money isn’t everything, and dating a broke guy is no taboo. As a matter of fact, cheap thrills are quite underrated. However, it's a bit more challenging for women to date below their financial status. Women are naturally drawn to a provider, it’s in our genes.  We undoubtedly have the ability to take care […]

What does flakey mean? A flaky person is defined as unreliable and inconsistent. Inconsistency can be quite unattractive and upsetting to women. We all have had that one guy that hasn’t always kept to the plans at some point in our lives. And when someone isn’t being straight with you, it could mess with your […]

While growing up, your parents probably gave you the drill about how your life was supposed to go; focus on your studies, graduate high school, go to college, get a great job, and finally, get a good man. The typical American girl’s dream right? People don’t really talk about the kind of associations you’ll get […]

There are many different types of dating relationships. In fact, often, people are unsure as to what kind of relationship they are in with another person.  One person thinks that you are exclusive, seeing one another only and no one else. The other person expects the relationship to stay casual and enjoys dating a variety […]