Many people go through a series of bad dates before they finally meet the right one. With the reign of online dating, dates are more than ever, more unpredictable and surprising than before. Many meetings fall far below expectations, and it’s only prudent to prepare for the worst in most cases. Having multiple bad dates […]

You’re likely here because you are puzzled about a certain guy’s sudden advances. Is he just a friend? A love interest or simply a guy friend you want to get to know?  When guy friends ask to spend more time together, it could mean anything. When it’s a guy you hardly know, it’s even more […]

Bede Jarret once said, “The mysterious is always attractive. People will always follow a veil”.  There is a certain delight that comes with the unusual. Humans, especially men, like the unattainable; they are curious and like what they do not fully understand. People love the process of learning about the unknown and uncovering it. As […]

The days when women had to be coy, prim, and proper are far behind. The days of leaving the conversation to men and making it a male affair to initiate the first move are gone with the wind.  However, years of conditioning have made it hard even for the 21st-century woman to make a move. […]

Do you ever wonder how incredibly cool the 21st century is that you can do many things without raising eyebrows?  A woman can decide to be a single mother, date as many times as she wants, and as weird as it seems, she can stay single yet have a fun-filled life by marrying herself. So […]

There is no gainsaying that social media has dramatically impacted many relationships, both positively and negatively.  Many women, myself inclusive, take to social media to verify the authenticity of any Tom, Dick, or Harry that asks them out on a date. We even go as far as tracing his LinkedIn profile to check the kind […]

Are you wondering what to text a guy after a hookup? Do you even need to say anything based on how you feel about the hookup? Often, women become emotionally attached after hooking up with men. They feel a connection that may or may not be there.  Of course, I’ve been in your shoes and […]

Whether you’ve said yes to going on a date with someone weeks ago and you’re now just not feeling it, you’ve planned a date with somebody in advance but you’ve already met someone else or you’re genuinely really interested in the person you have a date planned with but your life is in utter chaos […]

Indeed, money isn’t everything, and dating a broke guy is no taboo. As a matter of fact, cheap thrills are quite underrated. However, it's a bit more challenging for women to date below their financial status. Women are naturally drawn to a provider, it’s in our genes.  We undoubtedly have the ability to take care […]

What does flakey mean? A flaky person is defined as unreliable and inconsistent. Inconsistency can be quite unattractive and upsetting to women. We all have had that one guy that hasn’t always kept to the plans at some point in our lives. And when someone isn’t being straight with you, it could mess with your […]