Whether you’re in a long-term relationship or you’re just getting to know someone, being adventurous is what keeps things hot and brings you closer together with your partner.
Although it’s vital to keep things adventurous in every aspect of your relationship, in this article we’re going to be focusing on the sexual part of your relationship. One of the best ways to spice up your sex life is by simply moving the place that you do it in.
Knowing that every time you have sex you’ll be in your own bed gets boring over time, so in order to keep it fresh and new, sometimes you just need to throw caution to the wind and get it on spontaneously.
Experiencing new things together and pushing sexual boundaries in a relationship is vital if the two partners are going to feel as intimately connected as possible.
So, are you bored of getting it on in bed? Has your sex life taken a hit after the honeymoon stage? Are you trying to impress your new lover?
If so, it’s time to step outside of your comfort zone and give these 201 places to have sex a good go. As well as the 201 places, we are also going to share how you could prepare to have sex somewhere different, to make sure that things go as well as possible and you keep it as fun as possible!
Although it’s a great idea to be spontaneous and just go with the flow, a lot of people actually plan to have sex in a new place and tend to plan a few things, just to ensure it’s the best experience possible.
So, we’re going to run through some of the things you need to think about if you’re wanting to venture out of the bedroom.
You might be really excited about trying sex in a new place but your partner may not be so keen, or you might have not even broached the idea with them, so you need to tackle this first because you’re going to need them to carry out the plan!
There are many reasons that people choose to have sex in exciting new locations, but a lot of the time people do it because they’re either in the place and they’re the kind of couple that just get to it spontaneously, or they’re trying to spice up their sex life.
If you are trying to spice up your sex life, you will need to talk to your partner first before trying to leap onto them in a new place. The first thing you should do is sensitively broach the fact that you think the sex life between you needs some spicing up, and see if your partner agrees. Then, you can present the idea of having sex in an array of exciting new places that you’ve conveniently got a list of!
You can look through this list together with your partner and see which ideas you would like to try out first. If your partner hasn’t had sex anywhere other than a bed before, it’s a good idea to start small and easy.
Of course, this isn’t some sort of project or mission and you want it to be spontaneous, but you do have to prepare and plan just a tiny bit just to make sure it all runs smoothly, especially if you’re going to have sex in a very public place, or a place you need to try hard to enter.
For example, if you have decided that you are going to try and have sex in your car, you don’t need to do any kind of preparation because it’s not really a public place, and there’s not much to prepare for.
However, if you’re planning on having sex in your office, you’ll need to think a little more about it to ensure you don’t end up getting caught.
For example, one thing you could make sure you do is to invite your partner to your office when you know your big boss is away or make sure you wear a skirt to the office for quick access for your man. With pretty much every point on the list, a skirt is a good idea!
If you’re the partner taking the lead, which it seems like if you’re the one reading this article, you need to ensure that your partner feels comfortable with the place in which you have sex. There’s a big difference between encouraging your partner to step outside of their comfort zone and forcing them or manipulating them to have sex in a place that makes them feel uncomfortable - this is a huge no-no.
Everything you do as a couple should benefit you both and be 100% consensual. So if your partner isn’t ready to have sex in the park in the daytime but you’re set on the park idea, maybe ask if he’d be up for going at night on a little rendezvous with you. Communication and compromise are super important.
It’s important to say that when it comes to having sex in public places, you do need to be careful. Although the thrill of getting caught is often a turn-on, if you get caught it’s not much fun. If you do get caught, public sex might get you told off by the law.
Typically, even if people get caught getting it on in the back of a car or in a park they’ll get a slap on the wrist, but having sex on a golf course or breaking into an abandoned house may come with its own consequences.
However, this is kind of the point of not having sex at home - the thrill lies with the fact you could get busted by anyone and you might even run into trouble. Just try to make sure that if you are going to public places to have sex, you avoid getting caught, but don’t let it take away from the fun or put you off trying anywhere.
Having sex in different places, especially ones that are public or deemed inappropriate is thrilling. Obviously, try not to get caught and make sure that both of you feel comfortable, but after that, just have fun!
You may be getting hot with your partner in a park whilst people around go about their lives without even noticing, or you might have to struggle to contain your screams whilst pushed up against a bookshelf in a library.
These intimate experiences and moments that you share with your partner are some of the most important things you can do to keep a relationship alive because it bonds you together much more than getting intimate and home ever could.
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Most likely the entire reason that you’re reading this is to spice up your sex life, so go for it and get it on with your lover in as many locations as you can. Have fun with it and within no time you’ll be one of those exciting, spontaneous couples that do it everywhere!
With the ideas found in this article, you can now go out with your partner and have fun exploring an array of places to get hot and steamy. Thinking about where to have sex will become a really enjoyable thing for you and your partner to do together, and over time you will find yourselves pushing boundaries and getting even more adventurous.
Did you like this article and find it useful? Let us know in the comments and feel free to share with anyone you think may like it. We’d also like to hear from you if you think there are any other exciting locations to get hot and steamy!
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