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Relationship Advice - Cheating Housewives  

Liar, Liar - To Catch A Cheat - Learn The Signs Of A Lie

Relationship Advice - Cheating Housewives

Advice Seeker: Dear April,

I'm usually not the suspicious type, but I think my girlfriend is cheating on me. Last Tuesday evening she didn't answer her home or cell phone, and when she finally called me back the next day I got this long dramatic story about where she had been and why she couldn't call me right back. This wasn't the first time this has happened, and while I don't want to falsely accuse her, I don't want to be a fool either. Are there any tips you could give me on how to tell if she's lying?

Sincerely,

Tell the Truth


April Masini's advice:

Dear Tell the Truth, 

You bet!  There are definitely some signs you can look for, here they are:

Liar, liar, pants on fire -- The telltale signs that what someone is telling you is a serious smoke screen:

  • Information Overload: You ask a simple question and get a complex, long, drawn out, (too) detailed explanation, with way more information than necessary. Liars try to convince by revealing too much information and too many "facts," rather than conveying a simple answer to a question.
     
  • Informational inconsistencies or lack of logic to statements, the stories seem too dramatic or unrealistic. 
     
  • Physical discomfort -- blushing, sweating, leg jiggling, scratching a maddening itch.
     
  • Inappropriate body movement -- unexplained smirks, inadvertent shrugs, lack of eye contact or shifty eyes, and inappropriate smiles. 
     
  • Changes in speech patterns -- hesitations, odd phrases, slips of the tongue, or quickened speech.
     
  • Repetition: Repeating questions can be sign of someone buying time to formulate her or his lie. 
     
  • A strong feeling that something is not right. If your gut tells you that "something's up" with what someone is telling you, pay close attention to their behavioral patterns (how a person sits, gestures, looks at you, responds, talks, etc.), listen for inconsistencies in information and watch for too much information -- someone who is trying to convince you with too many facts, rather than convey.

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