I'm starting to wonder if it's possible to be totally in love with someone, but look to others to fulfill those parts of you that your lover can't fulfill. (No, I'm not talking about sex) Like this girl and her secret book club...maybe she does love the guy she's with, but her guy isn't into reading those kinds of books, or reading at all, etc. Does finding that in someone else mean she is not truly meant to be with him?